I have to admit it is very hard not to be bitter, for we also took her in, in good faith, and paid dearly, with a similar experience, except that we were not involved in her RP worlds or dramas.
We too wanted to believe her, before the stealing, entitlement, refusal to work or pay bills/rent, ripped open rent envelopes, lies and promises, the drama and stories, the phony tears, but I will never forgive what that child did to one of our pets while we were away, or how w lied for her, that's when it began to unravel for her. I try to find some good in it, to forget the smells, the mess, the whole hellish experience, but until recently I carried this house financially for almost a year to great hardship, it was better than taking in another roommate. She gave a phony address when she left owing a lot of money, after stealing a large number of books from the local library. It's just not worth going after her, I want rid of her, for I don't trust what I'd do to her.
I am sure she thinks she got away with it all, but the gods help her if she ever shows her face to Me again. I find it hard to trust, and am less inclined to go out on a limb to help another right now, I'm not one who will be taken advantage of twice. People have figured her out, the more people she screws and runs.
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Date: 2007-12-26 12:03 am (UTC)I have to admit it is very hard not to be bitter, for we also took her in, in good faith, and paid dearly, with a similar experience, except that we were not involved in her RP worlds or dramas.
We too wanted to believe her, before the stealing, entitlement, refusal to work or pay bills/rent, ripped open rent envelopes, lies and promises, the drama and stories, the phony tears, but I will never forgive what that child did to one of our pets while we were away, or how w lied for her, that's when it began to unravel for her. I try to find some good in it, to forget the smells, the mess, the whole hellish experience, but until recently I carried this house financially for almost a year to great hardship, it was better than taking in another roommate. She gave a phony address when she left owing a lot of money, after stealing a large number of books from the local library. It's just not worth going after her, I want rid of her, for I don't trust what I'd do to her.
I am sure she thinks she got away with it all, but the gods help her if she ever shows her face to Me again. I find it hard to trust, and am less inclined to go out on a limb to help another right now, I'm not one who will be taken advantage of twice. People have figured her out, the more people she screws and runs.