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leaveoutalltherestSo, I posted this on Facebook earlier this week:
"One thing I hate is when parents let their kids be cruel and
nasty to other kids in the family, because the family isn't getting along. Kids
should be kept OUT of the fights, and the ones who say shit should be
reprimanded in some way. Letting a young child tell another in the family that
'she's not your grandma anymore and you can't call her that because she's my
rich grandma and loves me more than you' is WRONG."
After I posted that, I unfriended the sperm donor's girlfriend and her children.
Today, I cam home and found this:
Shelli August 31 at 3:04pm
actually if you were referring to my children and myself you were grossly
misinformed of the situation. Greg stole so much money from mom he practically
put her in bankruptcy. To bring us in to this screwed up situation is pathetic
and STUPID. It is a shame that your family is so dysfunctional. If he lied to
you call Wal Mart it is all on tape of his and Judy's stealing. They stole
THOUSANDS of dollars and she couldnt even pay her bill so as far as being rich
think again, and besides my family has more money than anybody in your family
will see in a lifetime.
What I just sent:
Kym August 31 at 5:21pm
Actually, I was referring to what two people, in two separate households, told
me that they were told by the SCHOOL as what Mackenzie said to Seph while in
school.
As for being brought into this 'dysfunctional' family, you're the one marrying
into it. I know what Greg did, I already told him he's a damn moron for taking
the two checks without her permission. (And really, if it was THOUSANDS, he
wouldn't be charged with a misdemeanor.)
And money doesn't matter, Shelli. My family, blood and chosen, may not have a
lot money, but you know what? I can always go to them if I need to. If I need a
place to stay, they'll let me crash. If I need someone to listen, they're there.
If I just want to sit at their house and do nothing all damn day, I can because
I'm know I'm there because I'm wanted, and not because I'm an obligation. I'd
rather have bbqs in backyards and playing tag on the playground than whatever
brand new toy or gadget that any money can buy. And that, makes me a lot fucking
richer than most people in this world.
Yeah, this is it. I'm just... done with them. The sperm-donor, his thing and her spawn. I feel bad that I'm cutting out Olivia and GranJo, but one is going to be raised with this mindset and the other one believes every damn thing that comes out of the sperm-donor's mouth.
"One thing I hate is when parents let their kids be cruel and
nasty to other kids in the family, because the family isn't getting along. Kids
should be kept OUT of the fights, and the ones who say shit should be
reprimanded in some way. Letting a young child tell another in the family that
'she's not your grandma anymore and you can't call her that because she's my
rich grandma and loves me more than you' is WRONG."
After I posted that, I unfriended the sperm donor's girlfriend and her children.
Today, I cam home and found this:
Shelli August 31 at 3:04pm
actually if you were referring to my children and myself you were grossly
misinformed of the situation. Greg stole so much money from mom he practically
put her in bankruptcy. To bring us in to this screwed up situation is pathetic
and STUPID. It is a shame that your family is so dysfunctional. If he lied to
you call Wal Mart it is all on tape of his and Judy's stealing. They stole
THOUSANDS of dollars and she couldnt even pay her bill so as far as being rich
think again, and besides my family has more money than anybody in your family
will see in a lifetime.
What I just sent:
Kym August 31 at 5:21pm
Actually, I was referring to what two people, in two separate households, told
me that they were told by the SCHOOL as what Mackenzie said to Seph while in
school.
As for being brought into this 'dysfunctional' family, you're the one marrying
into it. I know what Greg did, I already told him he's a damn moron for taking
the two checks without her permission. (And really, if it was THOUSANDS, he
wouldn't be charged with a misdemeanor.)
And money doesn't matter, Shelli. My family, blood and chosen, may not have a
lot money, but you know what? I can always go to them if I need to. If I need a
place to stay, they'll let me crash. If I need someone to listen, they're there.
If I just want to sit at their house and do nothing all damn day, I can because
I'm know I'm there because I'm wanted, and not because I'm an obligation. I'd
rather have bbqs in backyards and playing tag on the playground than whatever
brand new toy or gadget that any money can buy. And that, makes me a lot fucking
richer than most people in this world.
Yeah, this is it. I'm just... done with them. The sperm-donor, his thing and her spawn. I feel bad that I'm cutting out Olivia and GranJo, but one is going to be raised with this mindset and the other one believes every damn thing that comes out of the sperm-donor's mouth.